The Art Of Giving Sweet Torture

When it comes to sexual intimacy, foreplay is essential, without it, the loving making becomes blunt and boring, it’s like eating a cake without the icing. However, if you really want to be indulgent, and have your serving of cake with icing, with cherries, candy sprinkles, marshmallow, caramel, and chocolate chunks of top of it! Then you must learn the art of giving sweet torture to your man; where your every touch becomes extra delicious, extra sensuous.

Teasing, or sweet torture, as I call it, is an art. It is about building sexual anticipation by giving subtle yet provocative sexual gestures to your lover. Sweet torture is all about erotic sexual denial. It is a sexual practice where the heightened state of arousal is extended, so that when you finally go for the kill, your every move is piecing his sexual senses.

Sweet torture is very much convenient. You can do it everywhere- the more compromising the location, the better. Here are some sexy ways on how to tease your man.

• While driving. This is my personal favourite. I love teasing my man when we are driving home from work. All that stress and tension from work just makes me want to grab him and do him right there and then in the car. However, I learned that waiting and building- up anticipation has its rewards. So, here’s what I do. I casually loosen- up, which means unbuttoning a little and showing a bit of flesh. Then, I would slowly massage the back of his neck, to make him feel relaxed. Next, I would slowly and seductively run my fingers on his legs and his inner thighs. This would usually do the trick, but sometimes I go further. I would naughtily play with his package until he is really hard. When this happens, I’m glad there’s a speed limit or else he’ll be driving in a speed of light just to get home and get it all off. The moment we reach home, all that waiting paid- off. The rewards of giving sweet torture are incomparable.

• In a restaurant. Romantic restaurants are a perfect place for a sweet torture. It makes the rendezvous more exciting and intense. Just like teasing him in the car, caress his legs as high as you can get away with. If you’re feeling very daring, get your hand inside his pants and slip a hair tie around his package. If this doesn’t rock his night, then nothing will.

• In a grocery store. I don’t know about you, but I love buying the groceries with my honey, and I make sure that he gets excited going to the grocery store as much as I do. I never spare this mundane task from doing my sexy, sweet torture. Usually, while standing in line, I would stand so close behind him, grab his butt, rub my breast gently on his back, whisper something sexy on his ear. The sensation just drives him crazy, he can’t wait to do some great lovin’ when we’re home.

• At home/ apartment. I love teasing my man at home, I remember how surprised his look was when we are in the middle of discussing the weather, I blurted out, “do you think this counter-top is the right height for me to straddle you?” Then, there was this time when I would casually drop something and pick it up in front of him while I was wearing my skimpy little skirt with my super sexy t-back underneath.

Teasing your man is all about feeling good and feeling sexy about yourself, if you think that your sex life needs a little push, do a little sweet torture. Believe me; doing the sweet torture can totally add spice and fun in your relationship. So, go ahead, torture you man away.