Guide To Picking Up Women: The Direct Approach

In “Guide To Picking Up Women: Part I - The Indirect Approach,” we discussed the pros and cons of using indirect game. Maybe you immediately identified with what you saw, or maybe you didn’t…it doesn’t really matter. A true master of seduction is adept at approaching in multiple styles.

And that’s where “Guide To Picking Up Women: Part II - The Direct Approach” comes in. Confidence, sincerity, and a strong alpha frame are the keys to direct game. Proponents of this approach advocate being open about your desires and intentions, using straightforward positive body language, and creating attraction through genuine compliments, overt sexuality, and intense rapport building.

What makes direct game so great? I’m glad you asked! Advantages to the direct approach include:

• Conveying a strong, masculine, alpha identity right away.

• Appearing confident and unique because, unlike most men, you’re comfortable being upfront about your desires.

• Moving more quickly through the processes of meeting, attracting, and seducing a woman.

• Not having to rely on misleading women or manipulating interest.

• Giving you a great frame from which to start relationships, if that’s your goal.

Unfortunately, as with the indirect approach, direct game is not free of disadvantages. For instance:

• Some women might be turned off because they feel that you’re coming on too strong.

• If you are not totally committed to maintaining your powerful, alpha frame, women will see through it immediately. It can be easy to slip into a beta state of mind if your brain and body are not yet used to naturally conveying dominance.

• Women who have had negative experiences with other “players” and wannabe “seduction masters” will likely not respond well to the direct approach.

In the long run, the distinctions between direct game and indirect game can be narrowed down to a few core differences: indirect game relies on playfulness, humor, and alternating interested and disinterested behavior, while direct game, is dependent on communicating dominance, high self-esteem, sexual confidence, and honesty.

Review this guide and the previous guide to picking up women frequently, and test out both techniques until you feel you’ve developed an extensive, well-rounded view of each method. Eventually, you will develop an effective style that’s all your own!