Relationships Attraction: Intentional Dating - Playing With Passion And Purpose Part II

1. The fear of failing is a very human emotion

It might be that in your past a relationship or two haven't worked out. Well, there is a club. This same thing happens to each person on the planet. It doesn't mean anything about the nature of your self. It is just something that occurred in the past. You would grant any number of your peers the ability to move on after a situation that may have not worked out right? Of course you would. When you consider that failure is just creating room for a new experience. Recall your game. To play and function in the present. Go into it with the first priority to have fun and find something new, not to prove how to validate yourself or prove how unfixable you are. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your positive vibration!

Try on being innocent and go all out. Just try it and see how refreshing it feels. Nobody is intending to steal a part of you from you that you are not going to give. Sure, there can be various expectations from your date. There's nothing wrong with that. Simple and effective communication can handle that. Believe me, you are going to have varying expectations and points of compatibility. If you didn't, you'd be terribly tired of that person in quite a short period of time. If you decide that you only desired one play date, that's totally fine too. There's no implied rejecting going on here. It is just a decision on how you or he/she wants to use their time. It's simply a choice, not a rejection. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationship Attraction, and it's not difficult to understand.

2. Do you have a case of the not-enoughers?

Your internal dialogue is "I am not thin enough", "I am not as rich as I desire to be"; you know those stories. You're just not enough. Consider that at the core, everyone has that recurring mental dialogue, too. You're not alone here.

Try your hardest to remain present and retaining your purpose in your game. That is, your purpose is to have fun. Imagine it as exploring. "What's something new I can learn about myself or my date?" Project the energy just before your date. That means to actively project what you intend for your date. For example, "I want to have fun and laugh on this date. I am going to allow this to be simple and light." Now you have just paved an energetic pathway for your date. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

Using passion and purpose is an easy way to grow your self in the moment. It is an extraordinarily different way to think about dating. Practice passion by being all-out and expressive with the purpose of having fun. Practice being meaningful by deliberately intending what you're doing. The bottom line is HAVE FUN.

The energy of FUN is one of the highest in existence. Allow it to be free. Live and have fun. You will become a magnet for fun people and if you keep practicing that, eventually you'll create the perfect lover.

It does not matter if you're 25 or 75 dating - just enjoy your existence. If you approach your life as a fun game, one in which winning and losing isn't relevant, life goes much more smoothly for everyone.