2012年8月14日星期二

Why Do We Need Communication in a Failing Relationship?

Been having a hard time in a relationship? Do you have a feeling that it will not work? Are you really considering breaking up a somewhat sour relationship?

These are a lot of questions that are unanswered whenever met with the question of why does the relationship fails, mostly leading to a pointing of fingers with each other.

One book I have read really opened my eyes on why does a relationship always fail, it tackles everything and anything you and I need to learn about love, life and other things that comes with it.

The book is “The Magic of Making-Up”, as you may want to know, this book is really an eye-opener for things you got to consider in a relationship and how to make a failing one get back on groove.

One of the things tackled is how to very well accept that when things are good it is always good, but when things are bad we tend to go spiral and really go bad.

A relationship will never become a one-way thing, it always have to give, it always need not just one person to function but two persons need to work on this to be successful. An important factor for this to work is “communication” without this not within a day you will not achieve anything. But it does not require for one person to communicate again it falls into two, both people in love must need to communicate.

This is not a fairy tale story that when you met your prince charming or princess of your dreams the world stops and everything ends from there! That is not the real world works, everything must be done through communication, constant, seldom or sometimes that most important is to have communication and acceptance of each other.

没有评论:

发表评论