As if dating is not hard when you were younger, it gets tougher now you’re a senior. You think, how can you come through in senior dating. Should you follow the trends and go for online dating? It’s much convenient and you don’t have to go through the anxiousness of approaching and waiting to be approached by a man.
It’s quite normal to feel ridiculous at times when you think about dating again. How you’d wish somebody would just come along and both of you would hit it right off, so you won’t have to go through the process of dating. How’d you wish, you look like Demi Moore so you can still get any man you want and have them running around for you and not to mention having a younger guy who looked like Ashton Kutchner.
Too bad things like that don’t happen in real life. We have no choice but to deal with the reality- make the most of what life has to offer. Why can’t dating be more like fishing? Throw out your bait ‘till someone catches it by the mouth and he is yours forever.
Dating for seniors can be awkward that is why they should learn to loosen up a bit. But it’s not too late. Everybody has the right to have romance at whatever age they are in. Before you do, remember certain restrictions and limitations when you’re in senior dating. The maternal date never works in all ages, so much more when you’re in your mothering age.
Men never liked to be controlled or be dictated upon, well maybe in bed but beyond that they will never allow it. Mothering men is too much for a man to handle, especially lecturing and instructing them about how they should run their life. Men don’t go after you because they need another mother; they need a date and a romantic partner.
The best thing a woman to do is to act her age, act accordingly to the wisdom you learned through the years. Never try to compete with younger women its futile. They have their own style and you have yours. Never race with them in a drinking spree or in wet t-shirt contest.
It’s also essential to dress within your age limit unless you have Haley Berry’s figure then its okay but if you don’t then wear clothes that enhances your assets and hides you liabilities. When you are acting your age, you don’t need to materialize your physical aspect most of the time, use your intelligence, and use your wit and sense of humor to attract men.
Intellectual seduction is your weapon; this is something the younger ones don’t have. When mental seduction is used men are sure to stick around. It’s also essential for senior dating to have realistic goals and objectives. Women who wants to join senior dating should be grounded, looking for an unmarried partner ages 40’s to 50’s is very complicated.
Searching out for the likes of Justin Timberlake is too much high expectation and may leave you high and dry. Last but not the least never pretend to be somebody you are not. Be yourself- be comfortable of you who are. Women are like wine so they say, the more they age the more priceless they become.
2012年9月7日星期五
2012年8月30日星期四
Women’s Secret Sexual Desires
Ah, women and sex, for a man, nothing can be more interesting than a discussion that includes these two fascinating words. However, if a guy wants to get more out of these two words other than just mere discussion, then he needs to be in depth on not just what women want in bed, but their secret sexual desires as well. But first, he needs to understand the basics of women’s sexuality.
The first thing that a man needs to know is the sexual energy flow of women. Unlike most men, where the genitals are the base and pole of their sexual energy, for women, however, their sexual positive pole is in their heart and breast.
This means that a woman usually needs to feel desired and love before she opens herself up for sex. Once the woman’s heart is opened, the sexual energy then flows down to her sex organ and begins to desire intercourse. Keep in mind that the sexual energy of a female is more like water on the boil. It can take a little time to let the temperature rise. Whereas for a man, it is quick to ignite like a fire, and is ready for intercourse in a matter of minutes.Inability to understand both energies can lead to miscommunications and problems.
The second thing that a man needs to know about the basic sexuality of a woman is the motive behind love-making.
When it comes to making love, men usually continue the habit they learned from masturbating, where the goal is just to ejaculate. For women, however, making love is all about connection. If a man’s goal is just to reach his own orgasm, rest assured he is going to have trouble in the sex department. If a man knows what’s best for his sex life, then he should take time connecting through foreplay and other sexual activities with his woman.
Now, I’m going to let you in on some of the women’s secret sexual desires.
- Go all over her body. This is one of the secret desires that most women want their lover to do. Women love it when their man kisses them all over their body. “I want him to kiss and lick down from my toes all the way to my legs, buttocks and back. I want him to excite sensations that come from somewhere other than my vagina, and I’m sure majority of women also yearn for this,” said one woman and I happened to agree with her.
- Longer, louder oral sex. And I mean both ways. It’s no secret that women want longer oral sex, but they love giving it, too especially if the man is vocal enough to tell her that she’s doing a great, uh, job.
- Variety. Women get bored with the same old routine in bed. I’m sure she’s going to love it when her man will treat her rough and raunchy after a night of delicate sex.
- Let her lead. Allow the woman to get in touch with her dominant side by allowing yourself to be her sex slave tonight. Believe me, a man will be fulfilling every woman's most desired sexual fantasy with this one.
- Blindfolds. Bring the woman’s excitement level to great heights tonight by focusing on sensation alone. Rest assured that having a blindfold on will always be one of every woman’s secret desires- for a woman, the feeling of total surrender is always sexy and rousing.
Nobody was born timid, so they say. That’s why when it comes to sexual desires, encourage your woman to open- up, make her lose her inhibition and let her guard down. She will thank you for it.
The first thing that a man needs to know is the sexual energy flow of women. Unlike most men, where the genitals are the base and pole of their sexual energy, for women, however, their sexual positive pole is in their heart and breast.
This means that a woman usually needs to feel desired and love before she opens herself up for sex. Once the woman’s heart is opened, the sexual energy then flows down to her sex organ and begins to desire intercourse. Keep in mind that the sexual energy of a female is more like water on the boil. It can take a little time to let the temperature rise. Whereas for a man, it is quick to ignite like a fire, and is ready for intercourse in a matter of minutes.Inability to understand both energies can lead to miscommunications and problems.
The second thing that a man needs to know about the basic sexuality of a woman is the motive behind love-making.
When it comes to making love, men usually continue the habit they learned from masturbating, where the goal is just to ejaculate. For women, however, making love is all about connection. If a man’s goal is just to reach his own orgasm, rest assured he is going to have trouble in the sex department. If a man knows what’s best for his sex life, then he should take time connecting through foreplay and other sexual activities with his woman.
Now, I’m going to let you in on some of the women’s secret sexual desires.
- Go all over her body. This is one of the secret desires that most women want their lover to do. Women love it when their man kisses them all over their body. “I want him to kiss and lick down from my toes all the way to my legs, buttocks and back. I want him to excite sensations that come from somewhere other than my vagina, and I’m sure majority of women also yearn for this,” said one woman and I happened to agree with her.
- Longer, louder oral sex. And I mean both ways. It’s no secret that women want longer oral sex, but they love giving it, too especially if the man is vocal enough to tell her that she’s doing a great, uh, job.
- Variety. Women get bored with the same old routine in bed. I’m sure she’s going to love it when her man will treat her rough and raunchy after a night of delicate sex.
- Let her lead. Allow the woman to get in touch with her dominant side by allowing yourself to be her sex slave tonight. Believe me, a man will be fulfilling every woman's most desired sexual fantasy with this one.
- Blindfolds. Bring the woman’s excitement level to great heights tonight by focusing on sensation alone. Rest assured that having a blindfold on will always be one of every woman’s secret desires- for a woman, the feeling of total surrender is always sexy and rousing.
Nobody was born timid, so they say. That’s why when it comes to sexual desires, encourage your woman to open- up, make her lose her inhibition and let her guard down. She will thank you for it.
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