How do you deal with situations where you think you might lose? What emotions come to the fore and how do you deal with them? Golf mind training teaches you many strategies which are extremely beneficial in other areas of your life.
I picked up this quote in reference to Mark Anthony. It is quite apt when applied to the human race in general. It is easy to have a happy and sunny disposition when you are winning, or when things are going your way. Your capacity to cope is put under a little more pressure when the tide turns and it looks as if you may be the loser.
How do you respond then? Do you steel yourself and allow your situation to fire you up and dig deep into your resources of mental strength and imagination? Or do you allow your shoulders to slump as all energy seems to dissipate and your heart becomes set upon turning tail and running home? Or do you get angry at the unfairness of the hand that you have been dealt? Perhaps you just smile, laugh or shrug in a reflection of the acceptance that "that's life".
I always say that golf is a game which teaches you, or at least highlights, many lessons which are required in life. The way in which you play golf more often than not reflects the way in which you deal with circumstances in life in general. As you learn mastery over various aspects of this wonderful game, you also gain mastery over similar situations in life.
You learn a lot about a person when you play a round of golf with them. Their true character is revealed very clearly in just a few short hours. You will observe whether that person is analytical and systematic or whether they take a more random approach to their game. You will see the speed at which they go about their life. You'll see how they cope with frustration, adversity or failure. Golf tells you a great deal about a person, far more than most of us imagine.
If you would like, you can use golf as a way in which to teach yourself mental mastery which stands you in good stead for life in general. Golf provides you with immediate feedback as to how well you are progressing, where many other situations do not do this so readily. You can clearly see the effect of your mental focus in golf in where the ball goes, or not, as the case may be. With the right golf mind training you can learn to focus clearly and to clear your mind of distractions.
Golf hypnosis is a very powerful tool in that you learn how to use both your conscious and subconscious mind to achieve the results which you deserve. If you are in two minds about what you are doing with your golf club, the golf ball will surely reflect this state of affairs. But with golf hypnosis you can align your conscious and subconscious mind, and also your logical thoughts with your emotions and your imagination. Thus golf hypnosis is a very powerful way in which you can take control of your mind and your game of golf.
This mental mastery can then be applied to every area of your life to create success and happiness.
Roseanna Leaton, specialist in hypnotherapy downloads for success and happiness, including the GolferWithin golf mind training system.
P.S. Are you longing to hit your drives straight down the middle of the fairway or would you like to become a great putter? Grab yourself a free hypnosis mp3 from my website.
http://www.RoseannaLeaton.com
2012年9月22日星期六
Everyone Has Thousands of Soulmates
Many people are enamoured with the idea of "The One". It is hyped up in films, books, and articles in various magazines, as well as the internet, and all this perpetuates the illusion that there is only one perfect person (or soulmate) for each of us out there. From the point of view of the energy universe, however, this notion makes absolutely no sense!
For some people, the idea of "The One" is a colourful fantasy, which they hope to realize one day if they are lucky; but to them it seems like a very hard thing, since soulmates are so rare. To others the whole thing is just plain repulsive, because they don't see how there could be this one "magical" soulmate on the planet, who would bring them happiness and put an end to all the problems in their love life. So, they settle for mediocre relationships, which they consider the norm and never experience true happiness with another person. On the surface these two groups of people seem to be very different, but in reality they have more in common than they think. Both groups hold false beliefs about soulmates, and that's why they never end up meeting one. Yes, one, not "The One". One of thousands upon thousands.
It's important to understand that your soul is compatible with more than one other soul on this planet. Your soul is the essence of you; it is your life energy, so to speak. This energy vibrates at different frequencies inside each and every one of us. Your vibrations may be very similar to some people, and very different from others. That's why with some people you "click", and with others you struggle to say a word. You get different "vibes" from different people. Your soul feels other souls right away and it knows its matches. This is how you make friends - the more similar your vibrational energy is, the stronger the friendship. But you wouldn't say that you could only have one friend like that in your life or in the world, right?
It's very much the same with romantic relationships. The more similar your vibrational energy is to that of your partner, the better the match will be. Out of almost 7 billion human beings on our planet now, there may be literally thousands of potential perfect matches for your energy, all of them your soulmates! You may walk past them every day on the street and not even know it, because the false beliefs ingrained so deeply in your subconscious mind will block them out of your scope of awareness. In order to meet one of your soulmates, the first step is to break the belief system of "The One" and realize that it's not hard to find a soulmate at all, if you just let it happen. To accelerate the process, you can use the method presented in "The Soulmate Guide: Manifesting the Relationship of Your Dreams": www.thesoulmateguide.com
For some people, the idea of "The One" is a colourful fantasy, which they hope to realize one day if they are lucky; but to them it seems like a very hard thing, since soulmates are so rare. To others the whole thing is just plain repulsive, because they don't see how there could be this one "magical" soulmate on the planet, who would bring them happiness and put an end to all the problems in their love life. So, they settle for mediocre relationships, which they consider the norm and never experience true happiness with another person. On the surface these two groups of people seem to be very different, but in reality they have more in common than they think. Both groups hold false beliefs about soulmates, and that's why they never end up meeting one. Yes, one, not "The One". One of thousands upon thousands.
It's important to understand that your soul is compatible with more than one other soul on this planet. Your soul is the essence of you; it is your life energy, so to speak. This energy vibrates at different frequencies inside each and every one of us. Your vibrations may be very similar to some people, and very different from others. That's why with some people you "click", and with others you struggle to say a word. You get different "vibes" from different people. Your soul feels other souls right away and it knows its matches. This is how you make friends - the more similar your vibrational energy is, the stronger the friendship. But you wouldn't say that you could only have one friend like that in your life or in the world, right?
It's very much the same with romantic relationships. The more similar your vibrational energy is to that of your partner, the better the match will be. Out of almost 7 billion human beings on our planet now, there may be literally thousands of potential perfect matches for your energy, all of them your soulmates! You may walk past them every day on the street and not even know it, because the false beliefs ingrained so deeply in your subconscious mind will block them out of your scope of awareness. In order to meet one of your soulmates, the first step is to break the belief system of "The One" and realize that it's not hard to find a soulmate at all, if you just let it happen. To accelerate the process, you can use the method presented in "The Soulmate Guide: Manifesting the Relationship of Your Dreams": www.thesoulmateguide.com
How To Live Happily, If You Are Suddenly Single!
“Statistics show that the average age for both men and women divorcing is in their 40s and this is a trend which is expected to grow.”
Finding yourself suddenly single will be hard as it will be so different from the life you and your husband or partner shared for so many years. But it's also a second chance and the opportunity to get more out of life and find out what you really want to do.
Sometimes relationships cannot be saved and when that happens it's time to be brave and move on. Although it may seem daunting for someone who has shared their life with another person for decades, and now they are considerably older than when they were last single, it can be seen as a fresh new start.
"Nowadays it's not nearly so dramatic to be on your own at 50, because 50-year-olds today are usually healthier and wealthier than in the past. There are many other single people around who are the same age and in the same boat. It is the fastest rising age group in divorce statistics.
"If you're fit and active, there's no reason why you shouldn't go out and have a good time.
"It's particularly frightening being on your own so you need to take your life in your hands and make sure you get plenty of support around you.
Few Tips:
1. Accept the relationship is over and don't rely on your ex for emotional support - seek it elsewhere.
2. Find things you want to do in your free time - maybe a new pastime or an old sport you haven't done in years.
3. Tell friends so they don't feel awkward or obliged to take sides.
4. Talk to your ex about how you will arrange events involving your kids.
5. Find things you want to do such as holidays or eating out and ask friends or family to come. That way you won't feel so consciously not a couple.
6. Keep busy so you don't have an empty diary.
7. Track down old friends. Book a singles holiday somewhere you've always wanted to go to.
8. Keep telling yourself it is a new start and enjoy putting yourself first!
Finding yourself suddenly single will be hard as it will be so different from the life you and your husband or partner shared for so many years. But it's also a second chance and the opportunity to get more out of life and find out what you really want to do.
Sometimes relationships cannot be saved and when that happens it's time to be brave and move on. Although it may seem daunting for someone who has shared their life with another person for decades, and now they are considerably older than when they were last single, it can be seen as a fresh new start.
"Nowadays it's not nearly so dramatic to be on your own at 50, because 50-year-olds today are usually healthier and wealthier than in the past. There are many other single people around who are the same age and in the same boat. It is the fastest rising age group in divorce statistics.
"If you're fit and active, there's no reason why you shouldn't go out and have a good time.
"It's particularly frightening being on your own so you need to take your life in your hands and make sure you get plenty of support around you.
Few Tips:
1. Accept the relationship is over and don't rely on your ex for emotional support - seek it elsewhere.
2. Find things you want to do in your free time - maybe a new pastime or an old sport you haven't done in years.
3. Tell friends so they don't feel awkward or obliged to take sides.
4. Talk to your ex about how you will arrange events involving your kids.
5. Find things you want to do such as holidays or eating out and ask friends or family to come. That way you won't feel so consciously not a couple.
6. Keep busy so you don't have an empty diary.
7. Track down old friends. Book a singles holiday somewhere you've always wanted to go to.
8. Keep telling yourself it is a new start and enjoy putting yourself first!
2012年9月21日星期五
So, You Think You're Ready For Marriage?
‘I do’—no other sentence is as emphatic, no words as life-changing. Marriage is perhaps the most important decision a person will ever make in his lifetime. Pledging your life to another person and living the rest of your days together; promising to love and honor each other through sickness, health, adversity, and conflict—these are demands too much to ask of mere mortals.
And yet, these are what marriage requires of us, from the time we cross to the altar, to the moment we say ‘I do.’ Sadly, most people miss the gravity of such a decision—they enter into marriage with eyes closed, hoping for the best but preparing for the worst. What a depressing way to start a life with someone! It is no wonder that more and more marriages end in divorce.
A 2002 census, for example, found that a staggering 54.9% of new marriages in Sweden end in divorce. Belarus and Finland follow close at 52.9% and 51.2%, respectively. Of the 51 countries surveyed, 21 have divorce rates above 35%. In the light of such sobering results, it is time to look at some major marriage issues that one ought to consider before taking the marital plunge.
The first, and perhaps the most crucial issue, is the reason for matrimony. As cliché as it may sound, marrying for love is still the best foundation for marriage. Marriages for convenience may last, but those entered into in love spell happier and more satisfying unions. True, unconditional love makes it easier to overlook a spouse’s annoying habits and shortcomings, and to focus on his virtues.
With love also comes respect, and with respect, honoring one’s spouse becomes effortless. The second issue concerns goals. Marital objectives are the oil that keeps a marriage moving; an aimless marriage becomes lifeless and inert. A couple should set personal, as well as, relationship goals to keep the marriage from stagnating.
Some marriage goals are non-negotiable (having children, for example); others can be compromised on (buying a property). While marital aspirations of both individuals need not be exactly the same, they should be complementary—incompatibility in this aspect of marriage results in discordant relationships. The third issue relates to beliefs and values.
A person’s religious beliefs form a big part of who he is and affect his perspective on things. A Jehovah’s Witness’ spouse stand on blood, for example, could have major impact on the family as a whole. For some couples, divergence in belief systems is the deal breaker; for others, it is a problem they can work around.
Marrying someone with the same belief system and values definitely make for a harmonious relationship; but if a couple with dissimilar convictions is willing to respect such dissimilarities, the union could thrive just as well. The fourth major issue concerns one’s behavioral expectations of his or her spouse. Nobody is perfect—each one has imperfections and character flaws that make an individual way he is.
This flaw maybe as mildly irritating as impatience or indecisiveness or something more serious—uncontrollable violent behavior, alcoholism, drug addiction or constant infidelity. Loving someone means accepting him for who he is, warts and all. However, it does not mean compromising one’s own principles in the process. Marrying a less-than-perfect person is perfectly okay, as long as his flaws are ones you can live with.
It takes honesty, openness, and courage to tackle these issues before getting married. A truthful assessment of a couple’s compatibility may take the romance out of marriage but it may just be what saves it. Done with sincerity and frankness, it will erase the doubts and strengthen the bond between the couple.
Only then will they be able to say with conviction:'I do.'
And yet, these are what marriage requires of us, from the time we cross to the altar, to the moment we say ‘I do.’ Sadly, most people miss the gravity of such a decision—they enter into marriage with eyes closed, hoping for the best but preparing for the worst. What a depressing way to start a life with someone! It is no wonder that more and more marriages end in divorce.
A 2002 census, for example, found that a staggering 54.9% of new marriages in Sweden end in divorce. Belarus and Finland follow close at 52.9% and 51.2%, respectively. Of the 51 countries surveyed, 21 have divorce rates above 35%. In the light of such sobering results, it is time to look at some major marriage issues that one ought to consider before taking the marital plunge.
The first, and perhaps the most crucial issue, is the reason for matrimony. As cliché as it may sound, marrying for love is still the best foundation for marriage. Marriages for convenience may last, but those entered into in love spell happier and more satisfying unions. True, unconditional love makes it easier to overlook a spouse’s annoying habits and shortcomings, and to focus on his virtues.
With love also comes respect, and with respect, honoring one’s spouse becomes effortless. The second issue concerns goals. Marital objectives are the oil that keeps a marriage moving; an aimless marriage becomes lifeless and inert. A couple should set personal, as well as, relationship goals to keep the marriage from stagnating.
Some marriage goals are non-negotiable (having children, for example); others can be compromised on (buying a property). While marital aspirations of both individuals need not be exactly the same, they should be complementary—incompatibility in this aspect of marriage results in discordant relationships. The third issue relates to beliefs and values.
A person’s religious beliefs form a big part of who he is and affect his perspective on things. A Jehovah’s Witness’ spouse stand on blood, for example, could have major impact on the family as a whole. For some couples, divergence in belief systems is the deal breaker; for others, it is a problem they can work around.
Marrying someone with the same belief system and values definitely make for a harmonious relationship; but if a couple with dissimilar convictions is willing to respect such dissimilarities, the union could thrive just as well. The fourth major issue concerns one’s behavioral expectations of his or her spouse. Nobody is perfect—each one has imperfections and character flaws that make an individual way he is.
This flaw maybe as mildly irritating as impatience or indecisiveness or something more serious—uncontrollable violent behavior, alcoholism, drug addiction or constant infidelity. Loving someone means accepting him for who he is, warts and all. However, it does not mean compromising one’s own principles in the process. Marrying a less-than-perfect person is perfectly okay, as long as his flaws are ones you can live with.
It takes honesty, openness, and courage to tackle these issues before getting married. A truthful assessment of a couple’s compatibility may take the romance out of marriage but it may just be what saves it. Done with sincerity and frankness, it will erase the doubts and strengthen the bond between the couple.
Only then will they be able to say with conviction:'I do.'
Want To Know What Your Wife and Her Lover Were Texting About?
When two people are joined in a loving marriage, a tragedy like infidelity entering into the wedded bliss can cause an innocent spouse to be thrown into a tremendous amount of shock and pain. When innocent husbands have a nagging feeling in the pit of their stomach, and they already know their wife is having an affair with another man, it can literally drive a person out of their mind. This is especially true when they see many actions their partner is doing actually to point to the obvious. What makes this type of situation hard is that many times actual evidence is hard to obtain. What is an innocent spouse supposed to do? Should they try to go unnoticed and follow their partner around? This is an action that can be very time consuming and it can also be dangerous. Should they place cameras all around their home to catch a cheating spouse? Unfortunately, even though this often ends with successful results, it requires a large amount of money in purchasing the needed equipment, and it is very hard to find perfect spots to place the cameras so that they are left unnoticed. The best answer is to have professionals recover deleted text from your partners phone so you have the opportunity to read everything that has been said between your spouse and the 'other' man.
More and more husbands are opting for cell phone forensic investigations, not only because it gives them the chance to read texts sent between the cheaters, but they also receive the following advantages.
· There is not a lot of expense involved in cell phone forensic investigations.
· No danger is involved and little time is required, as results are received in as little as two days.
· All you have to do is send the cell phone that contains suspicious data.
· Cheating partners cannot lie their way around black and white evidence.
In some cases when an affair is brought out in the open when experts recover deleted text proving an affair has occurred, the couple begins communicating about problems they've been having, counseling is started, and often times when they give it their all, the marriage is saved. In other cases, especially when cheating has occurred repeatedly, it gives the innocent partner the strength to finally break free.
There are several forms of data that can be recovered that includes sext, text, and SMS messages, contact information, address book, pictures, videos, email addresses, and several other bits of information that is often found when you have an investigator recover deleted text.
Copyright (c) 2010 Ed Opperman
More and more husbands are opting for cell phone forensic investigations, not only because it gives them the chance to read texts sent between the cheaters, but they also receive the following advantages.
· There is not a lot of expense involved in cell phone forensic investigations.
· No danger is involved and little time is required, as results are received in as little as two days.
· All you have to do is send the cell phone that contains suspicious data.
· Cheating partners cannot lie their way around black and white evidence.
In some cases when an affair is brought out in the open when experts recover deleted text proving an affair has occurred, the couple begins communicating about problems they've been having, counseling is started, and often times when they give it their all, the marriage is saved. In other cases, especially when cheating has occurred repeatedly, it gives the innocent partner the strength to finally break free.
There are several forms of data that can be recovered that includes sext, text, and SMS messages, contact information, address book, pictures, videos, email addresses, and several other bits of information that is often found when you have an investigator recover deleted text.
Copyright (c) 2010 Ed Opperman
How Can You Recover Deleted Text and Catch Cheating Partners?
In this day and age online infidelity and other forms of cheating have become a problem for an endless number of innocent partners all around the world, and infidelity is a problem that continues to grow and devastate relationships every single year.
Although many of the advancements that have been made in high tech technology have been extremely beneficial to a large number of us for work and personal use, they have also caused a great deal of pain for numerous others. Cellular devices for instance have become a helpful tool to use for hiding SMS text messages from a hidden lover with those who are choosing to engage in unfaithful activities. What many of them do not know however, is that there is a way to retrieve deleted text messages that they are trying to hide from their spouse, which can easily reveal to an innocent partner exactly what is going on between the guilty partner and a hidden affair. The use of cell phone forensics is a service that has given thousands of innocent victims of infidelity the information they needed to catch cheating partners.
When you recover deleted text messages from cellular devices there is also other important information that can be obtained as well, and believe it or not you are generally able to receive the proof you are looking for to confront your mate or child in 48 hours or less. When a private investigator performs a cell phone forensics investigation, it gives parents and partners the ability to obtain information about infidelity occurring within the relationship, any drug use that may be occurring with a teen child, and they can also obtain information about bullying or sexting that may be going on. By providing an experienced private investigator that has the needed expertise to perform this service with the cell phone or blackberry that may hold incriminating evidence, they can retrieve deleted text messages, photos and graphics, caller ID, address book, email addresses, videos, sext messages, calls made and received along with the time and duration of the calls. After the evidence has been obtained, you are then given a disk that contains a full detailed report of the data that they have been able to retrieve.
A cell phone forensics investigation is the cutting edge of technology and so beneficial that it is used in the gathering of data for legal high tech intelligence.
Copyright (c) 2010 Ed Opperman
Although many of the advancements that have been made in high tech technology have been extremely beneficial to a large number of us for work and personal use, they have also caused a great deal of pain for numerous others. Cellular devices for instance have become a helpful tool to use for hiding SMS text messages from a hidden lover with those who are choosing to engage in unfaithful activities. What many of them do not know however, is that there is a way to retrieve deleted text messages that they are trying to hide from their spouse, which can easily reveal to an innocent partner exactly what is going on between the guilty partner and a hidden affair. The use of cell phone forensics is a service that has given thousands of innocent victims of infidelity the information they needed to catch cheating partners.
When you recover deleted text messages from cellular devices there is also other important information that can be obtained as well, and believe it or not you are generally able to receive the proof you are looking for to confront your mate or child in 48 hours or less. When a private investigator performs a cell phone forensics investigation, it gives parents and partners the ability to obtain information about infidelity occurring within the relationship, any drug use that may be occurring with a teen child, and they can also obtain information about bullying or sexting that may be going on. By providing an experienced private investigator that has the needed expertise to perform this service with the cell phone or blackberry that may hold incriminating evidence, they can retrieve deleted text messages, photos and graphics, caller ID, address book, email addresses, videos, sext messages, calls made and received along with the time and duration of the calls. After the evidence has been obtained, you are then given a disk that contains a full detailed report of the data that they have been able to retrieve.
A cell phone forensics investigation is the cutting edge of technology and so beneficial that it is used in the gathering of data for legal high tech intelligence.
Copyright (c) 2010 Ed Opperman
Is It Possible To Catch A Cheater Using Only An Email Address?
Many people think that the pain and frustrations of a cheating partner will never be a problem in their own relationship, much less ever having to worry about the form of cheating that causes countless partners to do everything possible to catch a cheater, known as online infidelity. Unfortunately, this is a growing problem that affects more and more innocent individuals involved in a marriage or serious relationship every single day, and many times it seems to happen when they least expect it. There are many men and women that register on social networking and dating sites that are simply unable to walk away from the temptations that they find on these websites. This includes sites like Facebook, Myspace, and a variety of dating sites that are found a dime a dozen in every nook and cranny of cyberspace.
Imagine a total stranger walking right into your home, invading the personal life of you and your partner. Unbeknownst to innocent partners, this is exactly what happens when an unfaithful spouse registers on these types of websites, opening the doors of the home through the family computer, and it often feels like a personal invasion. Ultimately, the result of sneaky behavior such as this can cause trust levels that were once shared to plummet, leaving many partners no choice but to catch a cheater and put an end to their painful suspicions.
Over the past several years there have been numerous research projects and studies performed on the subject of online infidelity that has resulted in some very surprising statistics. For instance, there have been several women that have been left with no choice but to catch a cheater, when they have faced many of the warning signs first-hand. Up to 75 percent of the male gender does not feel that sneaky behavior they take part in on social networking sites should be considered as cheating against their partner.
With the help of private investigators, there are effective ways to catch a cheater through what is known as an online infidelity investigation. Although it may be hard to believe, all that is needed for the PI to supply innocent partners with links to sites that have been registered on, is an email address of the suspected partner. Other information you can also obtain is links to various porn, cam, and escort sites that they may have also registered on.
Finding private investigators with expertise and a long line of knowledge in performing online infidelity investigations is a must, and should be taken into consideration when you consider the PI that you would like to use.
Copyright (c) 2010 Ed Opperman
Imagine a total stranger walking right into your home, invading the personal life of you and your partner. Unbeknownst to innocent partners, this is exactly what happens when an unfaithful spouse registers on these types of websites, opening the doors of the home through the family computer, and it often feels like a personal invasion. Ultimately, the result of sneaky behavior such as this can cause trust levels that were once shared to plummet, leaving many partners no choice but to catch a cheater and put an end to their painful suspicions.
Over the past several years there have been numerous research projects and studies performed on the subject of online infidelity that has resulted in some very surprising statistics. For instance, there have been several women that have been left with no choice but to catch a cheater, when they have faced many of the warning signs first-hand. Up to 75 percent of the male gender does not feel that sneaky behavior they take part in on social networking sites should be considered as cheating against their partner.
With the help of private investigators, there are effective ways to catch a cheater through what is known as an online infidelity investigation. Although it may be hard to believe, all that is needed for the PI to supply innocent partners with links to sites that have been registered on, is an email address of the suspected partner. Other information you can also obtain is links to various porn, cam, and escort sites that they may have also registered on.
Finding private investigators with expertise and a long line of knowledge in performing online infidelity investigations is a must, and should be taken into consideration when you consider the PI that you would like to use.
Copyright (c) 2010 Ed Opperman
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